Experiences in the dating world do not change a lot from when you are younger and when you are middle age. You meet some good people. You meet some people you simply are not compatible with and you meet some players. The difference is, when you are a woman dating after 40, you should know better what to look for.
Women tend to complain about not finding good men. They are tired of being played or being used. Some of the same women keep dating the men they complain about. You clearly see the signs of being played, yet hold onto hope that the men will magically turn into the type of person you want. It doesn't work that way!
If you don't want to be played, don't keep playing the game. If you see signs that a man is just out for sex, stop having sex with him. Move on. If you want a genuine relationship, don't keep having sex with someone who looks at you as a recreational toy. Don’t keep dating someone who sees you as a convenience or doesn’t put a genuine effort in the type of relationship you want.
Character is at the core of a person, not personality. A player comes across with a charming personality, A person can change their personality as they choose and in a way that benefits them. Think of a player as an actor who gets on stage and performs from a script. This isn’t who they really are. It’s who they want you to believe they are.
If you ignore obvious warning signs of a player, you are playing the game along with them. You are putting yourself in the position of a player’s supporting actress. This is why it’s so important not to ignore the warning signs of a player. Don’t fall into the trap of their seduction and charm.
A player manipulates lies and misleads you. Their actions do not match their words. A player does not put much effort into a relationship other than what benefits him. Some players are good at their game and for a while you might not realize you are being played. However, once you see the signs, get out! You don’t have reason to stay with a player. If you do, you are part of the game and are allowing yourself to be played. You don’t need a man so bad that you stay with him knowing you are being played.
A man who wants a genuine and healthy relationship will put effort into it. He will treat you with respect. He will listen and communicate. He will be proud to be with you and your well being and happiness will be important to him. Sharing time with you will not be an inconvenience. It will be something he cherishes and looks forward to. The person you are will take priority over your physical attributes.
There is a difference between a man’s personality (which can change as it suits him) and a man’s character (which is stable). Character shows who a man really is. As a woman over 40 dating again, learn the difference and don’t play into the game of a player.
Women tend to complain about not finding good men. They are tired of being played or being used. Some of the same women keep dating the men they complain about. You clearly see the signs of being played, yet hold onto hope that the men will magically turn into the type of person you want. It doesn't work that way!
If you don't want to be played, don't keep playing the game. If you see signs that a man is just out for sex, stop having sex with him. Move on. If you want a genuine relationship, don't keep having sex with someone who looks at you as a recreational toy. Don’t keep dating someone who sees you as a convenience or doesn’t put a genuine effort in the type of relationship you want.
Character is at the core of a person, not personality. A player comes across with a charming personality, A person can change their personality as they choose and in a way that benefits them. Think of a player as an actor who gets on stage and performs from a script. This isn’t who they really are. It’s who they want you to believe they are.
If you ignore obvious warning signs of a player, you are playing the game along with them. You are putting yourself in the position of a player’s supporting actress. This is why it’s so important not to ignore the warning signs of a player. Don’t fall into the trap of their seduction and charm.
A player manipulates lies and misleads you. Their actions do not match their words. A player does not put much effort into a relationship other than what benefits him. Some players are good at their game and for a while you might not realize you are being played. However, once you see the signs, get out! You don’t have reason to stay with a player. If you do, you are part of the game and are allowing yourself to be played. You don’t need a man so bad that you stay with him knowing you are being played.
A man who wants a genuine and healthy relationship will put effort into it. He will treat you with respect. He will listen and communicate. He will be proud to be with you and your well being and happiness will be important to him. Sharing time with you will not be an inconvenience. It will be something he cherishes and looks forward to. The person you are will take priority over your physical attributes.
There is a difference between a man’s personality (which can change as it suits him) and a man’s character (which is stable). Character shows who a man really is. As a woman over 40 dating again, learn the difference and don’t play into the game of a player.